It seems that - during random channel surfing - I have often come upon the 3rd X Men movie and a particular scene that sticks in my mind. The scene is towards the end of the movie, and the Hugh Jackman character - Wolverine (good guy)- is confronting Magneto (villain)- the Ian McKellen one. Magneto says to Wolverine "You never learn, do you?". To which Wolverine responds "Actually, I do..." So, as a fifty-something man, I've often written here about some of the recurring lessons I try to learn. Especially, through recent events, I have had some days that reminded me of a favorite bumper sticker I've often seen - Oh no, another learning opportunity . Be that as it may, here are some things I've recently learned (re-learned) that I'll pass along. Most important - feelings are not facts. Even though you feel like tomorrow will not come, it always does. Even though you feel alone, you are not. There are always those around you w...